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Let's Talk About Flaming!

Postby Katrina » 26 May 2022, 11:29

I run but don't own a Christian forum. One of the biggest rule violations committed is flaming and even though I have a thread giving examples of what's allowed and what's not allowed, I still have members who are repeat offenders.

If you run a forum, do you allow certain types of flaming?

I ask because the flaming that is allowed on this Christian forum is flaming against someone's beliefs or ideas but NOT the person. You can say that an idea is stupid but you can't call someone stupid.
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Re: Let's Talk About Flaming!

Postby Netherrealmer » 27 May 2022, 08:26

I allow people to debate but I dont allow people to make personal attacks.
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Re: Let's Talk About Flaming!

Postby mrki444 » 27 May 2022, 09:04

Netherrealmer wrote:I allow people to debate but I dont allow people to make personal attacks.


What if somebody consider debate as personal attack? It is often case at least in my area. We debate about what club is better and fan of opossite side consider it as personal offend.
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Re: Let's Talk About Flaming!

Postby Netherrealmer » 27 May 2022, 09:30

Debate:

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Personal attack is when you start insulting the person
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Re: Let's Talk About Flaming!

Postby raaman » 27 May 2022, 14:33

If you take the stand that the other person is only expressing his views, then it won't hurt anyone.
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Re: Let's Talk About Flaming!

Postby Netherrealmer » 06 Jun 2022, 10:26

If you started calling the person stupid, dumb and other derogatory words, then it becomes flaming.
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Re: Let's Talk About Flaming!

Postby Sojourn » 06 Jun 2022, 17:46

People who are hot headed and too sentimental should never be part of any constructive forums, because they would always make ruckus at trivial disagreement.
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Re: Let's Talk About Flaming!

Postby JASPREET » 07 Jun 2022, 08:01

This is more like personal attacks and shouldn't be tolerated, trolling at some level is fine but if it's hurting someone then the admin needs to step in and stop and warn the violators
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Re: Let's Talk About Flaming!

Postby Netherrealmer » 09 Jun 2022, 07:52

Twitter caused two high profile suicides because of Twitter.
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Re: Let's Talk About Flaming!

Postby Sojourn » 09 Jun 2022, 13:20

Netherrealmer wrote:Twitter caused two high profile suicides because of Twitter.


What do you mean by "high profile" here. The victims were high profile people or the suicide committed in a "high profile" manner.
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Re: Let's Talk About Flaming!

Postby Netherrealmer » 09 Jun 2022, 16:27

They are high profile because they are popular. First one is Hannah Kimura, A talented Japanese wrestler. She was beloved in the wrestling scene but one day she joined a Reality show and the producers gave her a villain edit. Her participation on that reality show got her cyber bullied to the extreme. She also got racist attacks because she is Half indonesian. She got cyber bullied in the middle of the Pandemic and she was alone on her apartment. It drives her to commit suicide she was only 22. Her suicide cause Japanese government to demand people to use their real names before they can register in social media to stop cyber bullying and trolling.

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That girl could be working for WWE or Aew had she not killed herself because both companies wants to hire her.
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The second high profile suicide is August Ames.
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August Ames was a porn actress, she was asked by a fan if she is open on working with Gay porn stars because some Gay porn stars works in straight porn. She said no because she is afraid of STD. Her statement got viral and These LGBT groups and activist cyber bullied her to death and told her to kill herself. Not knowing she is going through depression. She killed herself.

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Almost become a 3rd body count was Kelly Mary tran, she played Rose Tico on Star Wars.
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There are men called incels, they are male virgins who still lives with their parents. They cyberbully People of color and actresses if they got a role in Superhero movies. They want Superhero movies to be lead by Straight White males only. So they targeted Kelly because of her role in Star Wars, almost got her suicidal but she decided to delete all of her social network instead so those virgins will leave her alone.

At least Disney Rewarded her with a Disney Princess movie which is Raya.
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Re: Let's Talk About Flaming!

Postby Katrina » 11 Jun 2022, 15:49

raaman wrote:If you take the stand that the other person is only expressing his views, then it won't hurt anyone.


Even someone's opinions shouldn't often be stated. I mean, who wants to come across as a bully? I think people forget that someone with sensitive emotions can be on the other side of the screen. There are people who can laugh it off and others who never get over a few bad words said to them.
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Re: Let's Talk About Flaming!

Postby augusta » 12 Jun 2022, 06:12

But that's humans for you they will always leave a debate and starts attacking the personality. talk about the issue and arguing but don't insult. it's shows lack of emotional intelligence.
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Re: Let's Talk About Flaming!

Postby Netherrealmer » 12 Jun 2022, 15:26

When a person you debate starts insulting you, it means they are losing.
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