[Netherrealmer]

Being a man, I've always wondered how you women manage to wear high heels. I also think they're uncomfortable and hurt your feet

High heels make the butt look firmer and bigger, and it makes the legs look more feminine as well. It's not about being taller the reason why women wear high heels.

[Alberello75]

High heels make the butt look firmer and bigger, and it makes the legs look more feminine as well. It's not about being taller the reason why women wear high heels.

You told me something completely unknown to me, you see I would always have thought the opposite. They say that there is always something to learn our life.

[Angie10]

I used to wear high heels religiously because I felt I looked better in them, especially when dressed up for work or to go out. Over the years, the appeal's worn off because those things HURT!!! I now wear wedges when I'm dressed up and want a little height - I'm only 5'1 but I'm happy with it and only wear the wedges to enhance outfits. Otherwise I'm in my flip-flops, Crocs trainers (beyond comfy!!) or canvas shoes most days.

[Alberello75]

Angie10

So you too are agree that high heels hurts. But you, who have worn them in the past, do you remember what material they were made of? Because that's also a significant factor.

[eldavis]

Lol i have always wondered how women keep up with that kind of shoe all in the name of fashion? Some even stress themselves by carrying an extra shoe.

[Alberello75]

Lol i have always wondered how women keep up with that kind of shoe all in the name of fashion? Some even stress themselves by carrying an extra shoe.

Those who choose any clothes in the name of fashion, among other things, spend significantly more money.

[Netherrealmer]

the positive effects of high heel shoes is just a bigger butt. Maybe, you know, if women do not want to go squats but wants to have a bigger butt, they can use hip pads. Hip pads can make your butt bigger.

[Alberello75]

I don't think shoes have a visual effect on women's bottoms. Women are almost always admired for their feet, which are enhanced by the sensuality of their shoes. In fact, the eye is drawn from below.

[eldavis]

bestwritwer

Being a man, I've always wondered how you women manage to wear high heels. I also think they're uncomfortable and hurt your feet. However, I believe that for women, it's a matter of appearance and style; in fact, a woman in high heels looks sexy. I think you'd agree on this last point, right?

Yes there is no denying the fact that they do look good in high heels, but they also need to be cautious of their feets and even health in general.

[Netherrealmer]

I don't think shoes have a visual effect on women's bottoms.

It does, heels makes legs more feminine and makes butts more bigger and lifted.

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[bestwriter]

I have many pairs of shoes in the shoe rack and none are high heeled but I have stopped wearing shoes and just wear slippers.

[Alberello75]

bestwriter

I Forgive, make me understand please, do you mean that you wear slippers also when you walk down the street?

[Jem Smith]

They were originally designed for men. They were popular in Venice several hundred years ago because they kept the wearer's clothes from getting wet if the street was wet and dirty.

I used to wear them sometimes when I was younger. For some jobs it's actually required for women to wear them, as attire isn't considered 'formal' enough if you wear flats. I don't like them though because they're uncomfortable so I don't wear them any more. I bought some nice flat shoes for special occasions and it's great if I wear them to a wedding or something because it's easier to dance.

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except from your foot that suffers from bunions

Yep. Shoes that are too tight can cause bunions. Not just heels though, lots of women's shoes are too narrow. I have bunions and it sucks. Getting rid of them would require surgery.

--- 04 Apr 2026, 17:34 ---

I don't think shoes have a visual effect on women's bottoms.

It does, heels makes legs more feminine and makes butts more bigger and lifted.

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Yeah, it changes your posture. It affects how your calves look too.

[Alberello75]

After all, it is up to the girls/women themselves to decide based on their experience and evaluating the advantages/disadvantages of wearing high heels.

[Jem Smith]

After all, it is up to the girls/women themselves to decide based on their experience and evaluating the advantages/disadvantages of wearing high heels.

Sort of. There is a lot of social pressure on women to wear heels. In some jobs/venues they are required as part of the dress code.

[bestwriter]

You are right For formal functions one is expected to wear them

[Jem Smith]

You are right For formal functions one is expected to wear them

There was a controversy a few years about about the Cannes film festival requiring heels for women. They even banned the director of one of the films being shown from entering the theatre for the premiere of her movie because she wasn't wearing heels. They've now changed the rules.

https://wwd.com/footwear-news/shoe-trends/cannes-film-film-festival-shoe-rule-controversy-dress-code-1237702920/

[Alberello75]

After all, it is up to the girls/women themselves to decide based on their experience and evaluating the advantages/disadvantages of wearing high heels.

Sort of. There is a lot of social pressure on women to wear heels. In some jobs/venues they are required as part of the dress code.

For example, for an influencer, heels are less a shoe and more a live editing tool. They help create that image of ideal, "perfect" femininity that captures the attention of followers.

[Netherrealmer]

Hundreds of years ago the actual users of high heels back then are men the purpose of high heels back then is protection of your feet from poop because back then roads are filled with horse poop because there's no cars

[bestwriter]

Weird reason really to demote fashion by giving the reason why men wore high heeled shoes back then