by cmoneyspinner » 24 Feb 2026, 00:42
Spontaneo wrote:Am I being greedy?
I prepare a luncheon every Sunday for my roommate and her boyfriend.
I prepare whatever the 2 want.
A little while ago, the 2 left to go to Sam''s Club. My roommate asked if I needed anything. I replied that some small food storage containers would be nice. She replied do you have any money?
Do you really have to ask if you're being greedy?
What you should ask is - are they your friends?
Why are you doing this anyway? If you volunteered, then they'll probably just say - they never asked you to do it. But since you volunteered, they didn't stop you. Uuuhhh? You might have taken it as an insult. Or .. you didn't say you were expecting something in return. It's so easy for them to flip the script. You make it sound like you're easy to manipulate.
Just saying.