[Parminder]

Hi Everyone

This is Ms Parminder a newbie to the forum. I am M.Sc, M. Ed, M. Phil. Worked as School Principal, Head Academics, Advisor Education in various schools.Right now I am not working as my baby is small.
I came across this site while surfing so decided to join to share valuable information. Trust to get an overwhelming response.

Todays post

Happy and Happiness......How

We usually become annoyed over the petty issues. We react badly. Doesn't show any quantum of patience. And forget
Situation + Reaction = Disaster
Situation + Response = Outcome

Give youself time, before reacting to any situation. This will dilute the intensity of the reaction and practice it daily untill your reaction becomes response. You wil feel at peace and see hapiness arriving.
We usually spend our energy to find faults in others and overlook our own faults. That's why we are unhappy. Look within. Don't find faults, Keep yourself calm. Happiness will join you. When we raise finger at somebody, we intiate the disturbance and the harmony , the equilibirium is gets shattered. There are ripples which effect everyone, the sayer and the listener.
So do watch two things carefully
Your reaction, when we hear negative remarks
Your comments about others
This will save you from many difficult situations Stay happy, stay tuned There will be happiness unlimited....!!

[IcyFirefly]

Great advice here: "Give youself time, before reacting to any situation. This will dilute the intensity of the reaction and practice it daily untill your reaction becomes response."

I am slow in reacting, and I usually walk away when I read something mean or personal insulting to someone. I take time out to think of what words I should use in my writing and I allow for my feelings to settle down first.

Having gratitude is also a way to cultivate happiness! The above photo quote is what I practice too.

[Fergal]

Welcome to ForumCoin Ms Parminder, I hope you enjoy your time on the community. Thanks for posting such a great introduction, I look forward to reading more of your posts.

[Angie10]

Welcome to the forum, @Parminder and thanks for the wise words I hope you'll enjoy your time here and not find any testing situations hehe. I'm sure a lot of members will take onboard your wise words

[bestwriter]

Welcome. That was a great introduction and invaluable piece of advice. I have written something on the same subject on another site - Approach to living a happy life

[cessy_08]

Welcome to FC and hope you are liking it here Thanks for the advice, too.

[skysnap]

Welcome to the website Parminder. I am sure you are going to enjoy your time here at FC. Keep contributing and have fun with the threads and the information posted here. There are some really nice people here

[nela13]

Hi @Parminder welcome to this great forum. I like your introdution and your advice, sometimes we need to hear and read good thoughts that help us to move forward in our lives.
See you around

[m.j.]

YOU are welcome.. i hope you liked it here .. enjoy your time