[King Belieal]

It's a great feeling to be able to help someone but when you know they does not deserve our help and take money to have fun and have no intention to return then its better to say NO

Some would just be enjoying with your money with the hope that you are always available to give them money as they want.

[Presh]

Help is only rendered within tge limits og your abilities. You don't have to help everyone as that would clearly be above your abilities.

[Tinni]

Iv take a control of how I help people. It is not an exhaustive venture. You have to put a limit on helping family because you also have a life.

[Vehlijanta]

People start behaving differently after they get financial assistance from us and that's what I hate about lending money

And if you refuse giving them, they tag you as bad and go about spoiling your reputation saying all sorts of nasty things about you.

This is the problem about it and that's why I prefer to call myself bad then to keep asking them to pay me back