by OldGuy » 11 Oct 2022, 18:14
Part of this decision is where you are. In some countries, leaving a tip is considered an insult. In some countries, the tip is considered part of their earned income.
Here in the US, there is an allowance for earned wages below the minimum wage because they expect the tip to fill in the gap. If they are not paid the full minimum wage not including tips, the employer is required to withhold income tax for a minimum anticipated tip of 8% on every meal served. If they don't receive at least that much, they are paying income tax for money they never received.
Some restaurants include a service fee of 18% of the tab to cover tips for staff, particularly if there are more than a dozen people at the table. If they include that on the bill, then of course no tip is expected. If they do not automatically include that fee, then tips are expected. I suppose part of that is to always read the bill when you get it.
Most service people in restaurants are not particularly well paid compared to other types of work. The added tip is a way to tell them if they are doing a good job. If they are lousy at their work, I have left 2 cent tips to make the message clear. Other than bad service, I actually always leave an extra 20% to 30% as a tip just to help them cover their own personal needs. If the meal was particularly well prepared, I have also gone into the kitchen to tip the cooks. It is no inconvenience for me. After all, it is only money. You can't take it with you when you check off this rock.
Besides, regular staff at the places I visit remember me and give me much better service in future visits. Most even remember my preferred drink and bring it to the table when I sit down. I appreciate the added unexpected services and special attention. You just don't get that if you are stingy with tips. I also enjoy being kind to those who serve me. I have been on the other side of this equation and have a good idea what they are experiencing on the job.
If they provide good service and tips are expected, put a big smile on their face! Leave a better tip! They will treat you much better the next time you visit.