[bestwriter]

Marriage – a dwindling institution
https://www.brides.com/history-of-marriage-2300616
The marriage Institution that was founded thousands of years ago

https://www.brides.com/history-of-marriage-2300616

seems to have no relevance in today’s world going by the number of youngsters who prefer to stay single, married partners opting to stay separately and divorces at the drop of a hat not to ignore the live in relationships that have no plans to marry.

Marriage in the good old days had reasons to survive The man earned, the woman ran the household and took care of the children There were no two ways about it . And life continued with no questions asked They depended on each other for survival.
As this way of living continued, in the back ground the world was changing.

Women got themselves educated and dared to step out from the confines of their kitchen. They also wanted to earn and this meant a paradigm shift in the partnership. Men no longer could just get home and got the pampering. They too started to lend a helping hand in the household chores

In other words both equipped themselves with ability to live independent of each other.
It no longer was a bed of roses that seemed to be the case how marriage was nurtured in the good old days.
Technology helped women to produce babies the surrogacy way.
Home cooked food which no longer came from their kitchen but bought from those who had business cooking in their kitchens.

And this set up also helped those who wanted to remain single – both men and women. Getting food from out, getting house keeping services, and even having companions to while away their time with no intention to marry
Though married some have no intention to carry the burden of children and adopted the DINKS (Double Income No Kids) concept – rather a selfish way to live provided they did some charity.

Looking at the present scenario where a nuclear family system exists managing a household seems difficult when compared to the joint family system that existed in the good old days – both systems having pros and cons.
While in the good old days elders ruled the roost that does not exist anymore and that seems to be the bone of contention if at all a choice is made to have the joint family system.

There is no doubt confusion in one’s mind. Looking at what one has to face today a question is asked.

IS MARRIAGE AFTERALL NECESSARY?

[eldavis]

I think one of the major issues we are facing now is that we now have so many people who are not mentally and emotionally mature to go into marriage.

[Zeena]

I think one of the major issues we are facing now is that we now have so many people who are not mentally and emotionally mature to go into marriage.

Marriage as an institution is well articulated. If the concept of DINKS gains momentum then there will be a high risk of extinction of human species.

-- 01 Dec 2025, 07:14 --

I think one of the major issues we are facing now is that we now have so many people who are not mentally and emotionally mature to go into marriage.

I think one of the major issues we are facing now is that we now have so many people who are not mentally and emotionally mature to go into marriage.

Marriage as an institution is well articulated. If the concept of DINKS gains momentum then there will be a high risk of extinction of human species.

[bestwriter]

I notice the DINKS concept is much in use and you could be right as if this becomes a trend there will be no humans left in course of time.

[eldavis]

I notice the DINKS concept is much in use and you could be right as if this becomes a trend there will be no humans left in course of time.

Am a little bit confused here, what's the DINKS concept you guys are talking about here?

[germainebull]

Looking at the present scenario where a nuclear family system exists managing a household seems difficult when compared to the joint family system that existed in the good old days

True.
Nowadays, the life of a nuclear family is very difficult because everything falls on the shoulders of a few parents and their children without much help from other relatives. If you look at the past, the joint family was strong because everyone cooperated and the responsibilities were divided well. There was solidarity and family support which made housework and raising children easier. Now, everyone carries their own burden alone and the pressure becomes great. This creates stress and sometimes the household lacks a healthy balance in life.

[bestwriter]

DINKS - Double Income no kids is a concept where the couple opts not to have children and enjoy their income - double income

[germainebull]

IS MARRIAGE AFTERALL NECESSARY?

Marriage isn't necessary for everyone; each person has their own circumstances. Some love it for the stability it provides and the sense of building a shared life. Others find they can live peacefully without formalities or ceremonies. Everyone has their own way of achieving peace and happiness. The important thing is to know what you want and what makes you feel content. If marriage is right for you, that's wonderful; if not, life goes on without pressure. Everyone should choose the path that suits them best, without being forced.

[bestwriter]

In the modern world one gets what marriages promises, outside of marriage.

[germainebull]

The world has changed dramatically in recent times. many things once associated with marriage are now available to individuals outside of it. Companionship, support, and even financial partnerships exist without the need for a formal marriage. Many choose to live together or form relationships that offer similar benefits to those of marriage. This has made marriage a personal choice, not a necessity for everyone. While some still value marriage for its cultural and spiritual significance, the reality is that modern life has provided numerous alternatives.

[Netherrealmer]

Remember to sign a pre-nup if you have better finances than your fiancee so you wont be drained dry in case of divorce

[bestwriter]

In that case it looks like a business partnership taking care of one's money I would not do it

[germainebull]

Remember to sign a pre-nup if you have better finances than your fiancee so you wont be drained dry in case of divorce

Signing a prenuptial agreement is a smart way to protect your finances and future security. It is important to have clear plans in place in advance to avoid losing everything during the turmoil of a divorce later on.

[bestwriter]

A marriage is based on love and understanding Signing documents with a view to safegaurding ones finances is not necessary