by grecy0905 » 30 Mar 2017, 21:36
Part of living is appreciation. It is looking at a nice painting and witnessing how a great artist moves his or her idea in an image that you have never seen before. The problem with people is that they are busy with each other’s lives and they don’t see the beauty in it. They are divulged in their gadgets, active in social media and then when they see a certain picture of a very sexy, beautiful, tall lady they will look at themselves and says “I wish I was her”. How lovely? Then you start to feel bad.
How about being paid for work, being able to meet the deadline, able to performed at your very best, getting all the project done, being loyal, no leave of absence and then your salary is still not increasing. Is that bad? Of course, it is bad. You might think at one time that you are not needed at work because despite the good performance, no one is noticing you and yet someone from the office that are not too good compared to you just had a nice sale and gets the money. Really?
Remember, even at your very bests, you still feel insecure at times because it is not all the time that you are the one that caused it. There are people who treated you bad or neglected your presence because they are busy with something that matters to them more. It means you don’t matter to them and that sucks. You will not wait until the time you will be part of their plan. On the other side, this is not an excuse for you to feel bad about yourself. Never you should neglect yourself because someone is doing that to you. Here is what you should do.
Accept Your Flaws
Insecurities start from noticing all that you think look bad at you. No person in this beautiful planet who doesn’t have flaws. We all have weak legs sometimes. There are small and there are tall. No one is at peace on how they look like. If you are on the positive side, you will not stay long in the mirror to judge yourself on how ugly you are. Okay, okay, accept you are ugly if that is the case. It will spare you from bothering and hurting yourself.
Tap your Own Shoulder
It sounds funny and it depends on you if you will do it literally or you just want to tell yourself how great you are after finishing the work ahead of time. You can do it both as well. If it makes you happy, you should. If you do not have people doing that to you after achieving something, don’t feel bad. You do it for yourself and you should be the first one that should be doing that anyway. Tap yourself. Tell yourself how great you are, how beautiful you have done and no other people could do that but you.
Collect Positive Affirmation Words and Post it Somewhere you can See Every day
What pictures are you collecting? For sure those are the pictures of your favorite celebrity, your dream house, foods, pets and etc. Why not include Positive Affirmation Messages. I am including this one because personally, it helped me during the low days of my life. When no one is supporting me and being aware of what I had done good for everybody, I inhale positive affirmation messages. It is just a message, but it is powerful. It gets me back on track. It always will. Yes, I am not beautiful like them, but I have some purpose in this planet that is why I belong here. I hope everyone appreciates that.
Part of living is appreciation. It is looking at a nice painting and witnessing how a great artist moves his or her idea in an image that you have never seen before. The problem with people is that they are busy with each other’s lives and they don’t see the beauty in it. They are divulged in their gadgets, active in social media and then when they see a certain picture of a very sexy, beautiful, tall lady they will look at themselves and says “I wish I was her”. How lovely? Then you start to feel bad.
How about being paid for work, being able to meet the deadline, able to performed at your very best, getting all the project done, being loyal, no leave of absence and then your salary is still not increasing. Is that bad? Of course, it is bad. You might think at one time that you are not needed at work because despite the good performance, no one is noticing you and yet someone from the office that are not too good compared to you just had a nice sale and gets the money. Really?
Remember, even at your very bests, you still feel insecure at times because it is not all the time that you are the one that caused it. There are people who treated you bad or neglected your presence because they are busy with something that matters to them more. It means you don’t matter to them and that sucks. You will not wait until the time you will be part of their plan. On the other side, this is not an excuse for you to feel bad about yourself. Never you should neglect yourself because someone is doing that to you. Here is what you should do.
[b]Accept Your Flaws[/b]
Insecurities start from noticing all that you think look bad at you. No person in this beautiful planet who doesn’t have flaws. We all have weak legs sometimes. There are small and there are tall. No one is at peace on how they look like. If you are on the positive side, you will not stay long in the mirror to judge yourself on how ugly you are. Okay, okay, accept you are ugly if that is the case. It will spare you from bothering and hurting yourself.
[b]Tap your Own Shoulder[/b]
It sounds funny and it depends on you if you will do it literally or you just want to tell yourself how great you are after finishing the work ahead of time. You can do it both as well. If it makes you happy, you should. If you do not have people doing that to you after achieving something, don’t feel bad. You do it for yourself and you should be the first one that should be doing that anyway. Tap yourself. Tell yourself how great you are, how beautiful you have done and no other people could do that but you.
[b]Collect Positive Affirmation Words and Post it Somewhere you can See Every day[/b]
What pictures are you collecting? For sure those are the pictures of your favorite celebrity, your dream house, foods, pets and etc. Why not include Positive Affirmation Messages. I am including this one because personally, it helped me during the low days of my life. When no one is supporting me and being aware of what I had done good for everybody, I inhale positive affirmation messages. It is just a message, but it is powerful. It gets me back on track. It always will. Yes, I am not beautiful like them, but I have some purpose in this planet that is why I belong here. I hope everyone appreciates that.
