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Overcome Fear and Get Rid of it

Postby raaman » 23 Oct 2016, 16:46

I strongly believe that everyone has some knowledge or ability that can benefit other people in this world. I think we all are here to share and give to each other, to share our knowledge with each other, to generate, grow and contribute. I believe in doing what I enjoy and am good at. Unfortunately, fear is the thing that holds so many people, keeping them in fetters and whispers in their ear ‘you are not of any value’. I know a lot of people who are good in various things. But many of them have one thing in common: fear.

The fear of not succeeding with what they want to do, the fear that others may think it is ridiculous, the fear of not doing it perfectly the first time. Many people carry these sickening, black and heavy clouds of fear in them. There is only one way to overcome fear and get rid of it: to challenge it by facing it and resolve it. You do not win over the fear by avoiding and hiding it. If you are afraid, then bring it down. It may whip you down in your shoes, but you know what fear is.

Your own negative thinking has become its own entity. Negative thoughts that have run wild in your mind and create fancies like you are not good enough, smart enough and looking good enough. But good enough, compared with whom? Who is this super human who sets the standard for how to be? The fictitious person sounds wild and boring. Have not we all learned anything about the comparisons yet? The only difference between unfortunate men from a happy man is creating unhappiness all day. You never know how by just being you and doing what you do can inspire others.

You can help them do what they dream of, strengthening them to believe in themselves first. When you are alert to take care of yourself and do the things you believe, you also help others. Always be the model you wanted. Be someone who you see as an inspiration and the person to draw strength from. Do what you are good at and like to do, the rest will resolve by itself. Dedicate yourself to it that makes time fly. It will make you completely drown in it. It is what we call ‘flow’. It's a big part of people.

There are people who do not even know what they like to do, what makes them happy, what gives them a sense of freedom and joy. It is very regrettable. At the same time, it is important to get out of it. It is because it is about your happiness and the talents you possess. Do you agree? If you do not have to worry about money at all and did not have to work a single day more in your life if you did not want, what would you do? On what and how would you spend your time on?
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Re: Overcome Fear and Get Rid of it

Postby Husainkoliraskr » 23 Oct 2016, 16:51

Overcome fear n to get rid of it..
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Just its our mind who drives us. If you are stable then all is well else it will mislead. So being positive is also can help you to get rid of all kind of fear
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Re: Overcome Fear and Get Rid of it

Postby sherryinutah » 23 Oct 2016, 18:01

I agree that being choosing to be positive and optimistic is incredibly important.

There are pros and cons with everything because we live in a world of polarities. If we truly want to succeed we must focus on the positive aspect of every situation. Rather than allowing ourselves to live in fear....

We can consciously choose to focus on FAITH in our abilities, FAITH that our prayers are heard and answered and we can choose to be COURAGEOUS where we take reasonable risks.

Darkness represents fear. If I walk into a dark room I have the option of "flipping" the light switch and as soon as the light turns on - the darkness disappears. We are in the drivers' seat in our own life and it's important that we make positive choices where we "drive" our minds to a positive place. :thumbup:
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Re: Overcome Fear and Get Rid of it

Postby grecy0905 » 04 Nov 2016, 05:34

I also needs to add that it has something to do with confidence too. If you have low self-esteem then you tend to fear everything at first because you know that someone out there is always better than you. It means that you acknowledge that you cannot do anything about it because you already gave a weak signal and fear itself is the sign of it.
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Re: Overcome Fear and Get Rid of it

Postby skysnap » 04 Nov 2016, 07:51

i agree, fear can make things really hard for people. And in order to grow ahead in life one has to take risks. This may not be easy but one needs to be working on the skills for the same. It takes time but it is doable. You have to just be patient some of the time.
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Re: Overcome Fear and Get Rid of it

Postby augusta » 03 Sep 2017, 04:42

I think fear is part of human life,all we need do is to always be optimistic. Nothing is certain, So we just have to be determined.
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