[bestwriter]

BANISH YOUR LONELINESS WITH HAPPY MEMORIES!

There is this adage ‘water, water everywhere not a drop to drink’ That is the state of people in this world today The world is busting at its seems with population - it has already reached the 7 billion mark - and everyone is crying hoarse about birth control and yet there is loneliness everywhere young and old alike. Where have all the people gone if they are not in anyone’s life? Who could have grabbed them lock, stock and barrel? One need not go far to find the answer. The culprits are the gadgets and other paraphernalia. They have decided to stay put in people’s lives trying to woo them in every possible way.

There were days people needed company to go to the movies but now lounging comfortably at home one can wartch the best of movies – no spending on popcorn and coke .
There is no need anymore to go to restaurants as home delivery has taken away the drudgery. Online shopping is yet another chore where one needed company and now there are countless online stores that will deliver goods at ones door step. The less people one has in ones life the more time one gets to get glued to the gadgets which have exciting things to offer – lilting music, virtual chatting, limitless surfing on the net – all with a click of the mouse. Why would therefore people need people?

It is only those who have shunned the gadgets feel lonely as there is no one around to give them company as others are engaged in hobnobbing with the gadgets that have plenty to offer.

Loneliness per se is non-existent if one knows how to keep themselves busy gadgets or no gadgets. There are memories that one can muse over sitting in ones favourite corner and this pastime will kill loneliness without a word of doubt.

Loneliness is the cause of depression that would result in health issues. Keeping oneself occupied and when idle reminiscing on happy memories is the only solution to ward off loneliness.

One needs to create memories and for that there is no dearth or opportunities Keeping one’s work as a companion can help one create those memories. Taking up hobbies, reaching out to the needy, …… If one is good at writing authoring a book can be given a thouight to.

It is not that people were never there in one’s life and while they were there that must have helped one create wonderful memories interacting





Happy memories!!

[eldavis]

Another reason why i watch movies, it helps me forget how things aren't going as i have planned, it stops me from overthinking most times and to just unwind and feel better to keep pushing cause there are times where even my happy memories is not enough, but these movies often feel like am going into another world, meeting new people, watch them grow and overcome.

[Paradise]

Nicely knitted piece. Truly loneliness is a drier of bones. It's actually depressing when one is all by himself and has no one to share life's journey with. With the arrival of phones and advanced tech, most folks no longer spend time physically but online. So even if you don't have some one physically present to spend time with, you can make use of your phone to play games, watch movies and chat with loved ones. That way, you can also create happy memories.