[anna444]

Failing that was bitter, even more bitter than any bitter medicine that we drink when sick. Failure also sometimes make a person drowning in despair and chose to surrender to tap into what is dreamed. But you know what? The real failure is not entirely bad and we can change it to something useful.

then how?

1. the failures make you experience a valuable lesson that will make you more cautious in moving towards your goal.
Make every failure as a test that will make you mentally stronger in the future and will add insight as well as your thoughts. do not react with excessive anger and sadness that can make you worse linger. Get up quickly and find solutions as well as the cause of your failure and then change your strategy beforehand.

2. tell your failure experience to the people who will probably going through the same path as you , so that they could take a lesson from the story of you and do not need to feel the same failure like you are ..
You can share your stories through a written or oral. However I strongly suggest you put it in an article on blog/notebook because it will not be timeless. With them know that if that way then it is doomed to fail, they would choose another path and here you already avoid or prevent them from failure...

You need to know to achieve true success then a trip you will never escape from the sad event and disappointing that so-called fail. for failing itself is an essential part of the process toward success.

Through this article, I wanted to make a quote

"You will not feel the sweetness of success before you taste the bitterness of failure"

Hopefully these tips can be reference for you to start changing your failure even more useful, both for yourself and for others.

[Canaria]

2. tell your failure experience to the people who will probably going through the same path as you , so that they could take a lesson from the story of you and do not need to feel the same failure like you are ..
You can share your stories through a written or oral. However I strongly suggest you put it in an article on blog/notebook because it will not be timeless. With them know that if that way then it is doomed to fail, they would choose another path and here you already avoid or prevent them from failure...

Just because you failed doesn't mean others will. What we need to do is instead to raise their morale and instill courage so that they can overcome the problem. The ability to be happy in their stead upon successes is not only heartwarming, but can prevent deteriorating relationship from jealousy and conflict.

Encouraging your friends on attempting seemingly "impossible" task is nice and all, though it depends on your real intention. The real question is, whether you want to see him failed for fun, or triumphantly overcome the difficulties, and share their happiness and joy.

[chikitta]

Those are some useful tips. Failure can put you down, But you can still pull yourself up and move up thanks for sharing.

[adssolsn]

I have a hard time sharing my stories, more so where I have failed. what can you recommend

[Happyland]

I like the points in this article. Failure can make someone feel bad about the situation but don't remain in that state of mind for long. Failure can be one of your best teachers you ever had. There is nothing like first hand experience. Learn from the setback and move forward with new wisdom. Also communicating with others who are following a similar path with help them avoid the same blind spots and pitfalls. Each one teach one.

[augusta]

Absolutely, this is what we fail to understand.Failure is part of our molding process.You don't look at failure literally but as a stepping stone to a greater height.When we fall,we should pick something up while standing up.This will lead us to success