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Getting a life partner is anyone's dream and a natural longing. The modern culture points towards finding one's own partner but those with 'old school' thoughts would seek outside help. A request such as 'find me a wife' would only come from someone who is well known - a friend or a relative. When such a request is made a host of outlets conjure up in one's mind and there would be willingness to help this hapless guy.
The first thing one needs to do is to ask for all the details about this person who pesters one with the slogan,'find me a wife' along with information on the type of wife he wants to have. Exchange of information is vital as without it no further action is possible. This request is mostly done quietly and the search would also be done in the same manner.
After getting all the details perhaps one would find someone next door or one's own kith and kin who would ideally suit the aspirant. After all this is a local request and obviously the candidate suitable would also be from around
When this fails thoughts go towards placing a confidential Ad on behalf of this person who wants a wife. The title of the Ad could ideally be 'find me a wife' - which will no doubt attract number of prospective candidates. This title would perhaps give the reader a feel that the advertiser is quite innovative in his approach to life!
There are other avenues such as joining a unisex club where eligible females would be members. Introductions could be done in a subtle way as one needs to remember that this guy who has no idea how to go about it the modern way some help would go a long way in putting together those that seem to be eligible. This club would obviously be only for those from the local area making it even easier to find the wife this guy is looking for.
After short listing the 'candidates' perhaps a dating programme could be well on its way. Getting a wife is no child's play specially when outside help is sought. There is always the fear hoping that after all the trouble taken this guy would make his choice and thus put every one at rest.
It is not just men but there are women too who seek outside help to get them a life partner. Local matchmakers sometimes are the best choice rather than going online which is a longwinded approach. In this system a common friend's house is chosen as the venue. This matchmaker will compare notes and fix appointments after which if the couple finds that there is some reasonable amount of attraction they will seek another appointment and finally be on their own and find for themselves each other's suitability.
This slogan 'find me a wife' could as well be the approach in times to come, as one sees several broken marriages which have taken place after the 'love at first sight' experience. Involving friends and family in choosing a life partner seems to look at things in the proper perspective and such marriages have hopes of lasting a life time.
We met at a commoon frind’s house!!!!
